The written word is not good at portraying the way we mean to say them. That is unless you are a great writer (which I am certainly NOT).
That is why I spend a lot of time trying to respond without it sounding like I'm criticizing when I'm trying to point out something slightly different.

We shouldn't forget that (1) English isn't everyone's first language, and (2) even those who's first language IS English, don't always say things the same way!

                            ;D ;D ;D