The problem with the IRIS F-14A's is that the panels are aliased to the IRIS F-14A Tomcat Clean\panel and for the F-14B's, aliased to the IRIS F-14B Tomcat Clean\panel so you must add Weapon for FSX to the F-14A Tomcat Clean and F-14B Tomcat Clean versions.

Then in the panel folder of the rest of the F-14A's you need to modify the panel.cfg to read:

[fltsim]
alias=\IRIS F-14A Tomcat Clean\panel.csweapon

And for the rest of the F-14B's, you need to modify the panel.cfg to read:

[fltsim]
alias=\IRIS F-14B Tomcat Clean\panel.csweapon

I think that should fix it for you. If not, I'll give you the longer method of how to do it (which will work), as I did with the IRIS A-10 Warthog.

Mark